Welcome to another Travel Tuesday hosted by Bonnie, Sammy, Kaelene and Van! I know this blog has been a little more silent than usual (ONE. MORE. PAPER. until freedom) and I almost forgot it was even Tuesday due to the holiday weekend. This month’s theme is languages. I’ve already regaled you with several of my more entertaining language stories, so I thought I would share some language tips with you all this week. I hope you find them helpful! You should ;).
1. Try to learn words you don’t want to know. So you don’t accidentally use them and invite someone back to your room in the presence of your host father. Also, so you don’t think someone is being friendly when they aren’t and try to be friends with them. This is the situation where you should just smile and move on.
2. Always learn a few phrases before you go! Or while you’re there! It’s fun to play with your phrasebook or guidebook.
3. But be prepared to not remember half of these phrases. You will probably remember words like “I love you” and “watermelon.” Sometimes words that are just more fun to say will stick in your head more.
4. If you are gifted with a name in this other language, embrace it. Even if you don’t know what it really means. While my name in Thailand, Mac-Gaw, supposedly meant “pomegranate,” the hilarity that resounded after natives learned my language made me suspicious otherwise. However, my ability to shrug it off and laugh with everyone definitely made me some new friends!
5. Also, embrace the fact that, if you travel a lot, you will likely pick up bits and pieces of many random languages. It’s fun! If you can become fluent quickly, props to you. If not, enjoy wowing your less-travelly family and friends with these awesome random words.
6. Prepare for the fact that, even in a country that speaks the same language, the accent might make it sound like a completely different language (side eye Ireland). Just smile and ask them to repeat themselves, or smile and give up. It’s the way of the world!
7. Give your brain a break! Especially in a country where you don’t know the language. Your brain will constantly be trying to process the words anyway because it’s trained to process language. It will be very exhausting so let yourself take a few naps.
8. Speak up! This one is especially hard for me because I tend to be shy. I find myself much more in tune with the culture and those around me when I push myself to speak the language I’m practicing. It’s hard, and sometimes no one will get what you’re saying (suck!) but usually, someone will help you figure it out. Or, go back into your room and cry a little if they don’t. Then get back out and start all over again. I’m full of philosophy today!
9. Learn all about cognates. They will be your best friend, at least when dealing with languages that have the same root (i.e. Romance languages).
10. Learn some phrases that will help you shop. The basic “where is the bathroom?” phrases are essential, of course, but might not help you in the store when trying to pick face wash. You may end up using conditioner on your face for several months, wondering why you’re so greasy all the time.
11. Don’t assume anyone will speak your language! Even if they do (and okay, it’s a good chance) it’s just good manners to be able to say hello. Even if your accent is terrible or you say goodbye instead.
12. Learn to use other types of language: like body language and facial expressions. Smiling goes a long way, as do gestures! (Warning: be careful in your use of gestures, because those change depending on culture, too!).
^proof that you can make friends of any age with any language.